People are more likely to smile when they have nothing to fear. Even if you`re not feeling particularly fearless, you can at least appear to be. While you`re at it, if you air your most harmless ambitions in full public view, you`ll have even less to fear. Better yet, you`ll find that articulating what you want is actually inching you closer to getting it. You are slowly but surely figuring out what`s important to you. If you take a risk by trusting a friend, you won`t regret it.